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Trust
By: Jay Dee, MPH My man my man my man.... I met a woman recently who came to get tested for HIV. While we talked, she shared that her...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Church Girl
By: Jay Dee, MPH Christian women fall victim to horrible relationships due to their strong desire to have sex! Before I begin, of...
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May 23, 20253 min read


We Be Tussling...
you don’t want to deal with your partner “tripping.” That’s emotional manipulation and isolation
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May 23, 20252 min read


Sex On The First Date
By: Jay Dee, MPH Having sex on the first night is a grown-ass activity. PERREIT. Plenty of women are down for casual sex, but many hold...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Dickmatized: When Good Sex Blinds You
Being ‘dickmatized’ means letting good sex blind you to red flags. Pleasure feels amazing, but it doesn’t fix toxic behavior—learn how to stay grounded.
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May 23, 20252 min read


Yes! No. Maybe? Sexual Assault
By: Jay Dee, MPH Consent Doesn’t Expire in Relationships Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re entitled to someone’s...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Single Motherhood by Choice: Why Some Women Choose Sperm Donors Over Partners
Women are increasingly choosing sperm donors over romantic partners. Single motherhood by choice empowers women to pursue parenthood on their own terms.
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May 23, 20252 min read


Intimacy
By: Jay Dee, MPH Intimacy for me has been sleeping together. Not sex, just actually going to sleep. These past few weeks, life has been...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Why Do You Have Sex? A Guide to Understanding Your Sexual Motivations
Most people don’t think about why they have sex. Explore 12 common reasons, reflect on your own motivations, and learn how intentional sex can improve intimacy, pleasure, and self-awareness.
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May 23, 20252 min read


Do You Trick?
By: Jay Dee, MPH Pussy Has Been on Sale Since 2400 BCE—Let’s Talk About It Sex in exchange for value isn’t new. In fact, prostitution has...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Sis, We Need to Talk… About Your Sex Game and Bedroom Skills
Good sex requires more than technique. Discover how honesty, effort, and engagement can transform your bedroom experience.
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May 22, 20252 min read


Soul Tie Explained: Why Sex Doesn’t Create a True Spiritual Bond
Many believe sexual encounters create soul ties, but science and therapy say otherwise. Learn why craving someone after sex is normal and what truly forms deep, spiritual connections.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Freakin' Me: Sexual Fantasies!
By: Jay Dee, MPH Let’s Talk About Sexual Fantasies Sexual fantasies don’t have to be wild or extreme. Sometimes, they’re as simple as...
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May 22, 20252 min read


You Fuck Me But You Dislike Me
By: Jay Dee, MPH Misoygnist: Hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls. -Oxford Languages There are many straight...
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May 22, 20253 min read


Unplanned Pregnancy: How Communication and Planning Can Protect Your Relationship
Unplanned pregnancy can be avoided with clear communication, contraception, and awareness of fertility. Protect your relationship and peace of mind.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Never Settle
By: Jay Dee, MPH Have you ever heard the expression, "Barbecue or mildew?" It simply means to do something (barbecue) or do nothing...
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May 22, 20252 min read


The Third Date Was A Baecation
By: Jay Dee, MPH Hakuna Matata, With a Little Street Smarts This is your sign to live ! Life is full of unexpected turns, but I’m...
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May 22, 20253 min read


Reciprocity In Relationships is Sexy: 5 Easy Ways to Show Love to Your Man
Reciprocity in relationships keeps love thriving. Discover 5 easy ways to show appreciation, affection, and intention with your partner.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Let Yourself Go
By: Jay Dee, MPH Dating is tough. We all know it. But the real challenge? Spotting red flags early and walking away —even when they check...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


New Sex Leads To Great Sex
By Jay Dee, MPH Here are 5 sexual things you can explore that may be new: 1. Double Penetration If you’re into anal play, engage in...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read
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