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Dating, Is It A Lost Art?
Dating today feels harder than ever. Friends don’t introduce single people anymore, dating apps feel like hookup markets, and social media has distorted expectations about love and money. Add in economic pressure and a growing fear of rejection, and it’s no surprise millennials are struggling to connect. But the problem—and the solution—may be simpler than we think.
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23 hours ago6 min read


How to Talk About Sex: Communicate Your Sexual Desires for Better Intimacy
Open, honest communication about sexual desires is key to a fulfilling sex life. Learn practical ways to discuss intimacy outside the bedroom, give and receive feedback, and embrace change as your desires evolve.
thevaginaliberator
Jan 183 min read


When the Roles Reverse: The Emotional Reality of Caring for a Parent.
And while caretakers carry a heavy load, parents themselves are grieving too. They feel the shift, the loss of independence, the fear of becoming a burden.
thevaginaliberator
Nov 23, 20253 min read


Sexual Discipline: Can Too Many Partners Keep You From Finding Love?
What exactly are you looking for––connection, validation, or just the adrenaline rush of new flesh? Because here’s the truth: no amount of bodies in your bed will fill a void that lives in your heart.
thevaginaliberator
Sep 21, 20252 min read


Why Parents Should Allow Teen Dating With Parental Guidance
Teen dating doesn’t have to be risky or secretive. With parental guidance, supervised dating helps kids develop communication skills, emotional intelligence, and healthy boundaries before adulthood.
thevaginaliberator
Jul 17, 20255 min read


Realistic Dating Expectations: Why Social Media Luxury Isn’t Love
Stop letting social media define your dating expectations. Discover how realistic financial standards and mutual effort build healthier relationships.
thevaginaliberator
Jul 6, 20252 min read


Monogamy vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy: Understanding Your Relationship Options
Monogamy isn’t the only way to build a healthy relationship. Ethical non-monogamy prioritizes honesty, consent, and communication—and for some couples, it works better than exclusivity.
thevaginaliberator
May 30, 20253 min read


Mother
By: Jay Dee, MPH Before she became a mother, she was a woman. Once a little girl who had dreams and aspirations. As we are getting...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Why I Choose Serial Dating Over Being Someone’s Girlfriend
I choose serial dating over being someone’s girlfriend. Dating multiple people intentionally helps me explore connections, set boundaries, and gain clarity—without blind loyalty to a maybe.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Attraction
By: Jay Dee, MPH Recently my homeboy asked me, "Do you think you attract the same men?" The conversation began.... I always hear...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20251 min read


Sex Is Transactional: Why Men Should Stop Pretending and Hire Sex Workers
If all a man wants is sex, hiring a sex worker can be a smarter, honest choice than pretending to date. Learn why transparency, transactional sex, and ethical casual encounters save time, reduce drama, and get exactly what you want.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20254 min read


Trust
By: Jay Dee, MPH My man my man my man.... I met a woman recently who came to get tested for HIV. While we talked, she shared that her...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Church Girl
By: Jay Dee, MPH Christian women fall victim to horrible relationships due to their strong desire to have sex! Before I begin, of...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20253 min read


We Be Tussling...
you don’t want to deal with your partner “tripping.” That’s emotional manipulation and isolation
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


What Does “Dickmatized” Mean? How Pleasure Can Cloud Judgment
Dickmatized” happens when amazing sex temporarily blinds you to red flags. Learn why hormones can distort perception, why pleasure doesn’t fix problems, and how to stay grounded.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Consent Does Expire: Why Communication and Permission Matter in Relationships
Being in a relationship doesn’t give anyone automatic sexual consent. Explore why consent is ongoing, how to communicate effectively, and the importance of enthusiastic, informed agreement in intimacy.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20253 min read


Single Motherhood by Choice: Why Some Women Choose Sperm Donors Over Partners
Women are increasingly choosing sperm donors over romantic partners. Single motherhood by choice empowers women to pursue parenthood on their own terms.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Intimacy
By: Jay Dee, MPH Intimacy for me has been sleeping together. Not sex, just actually going to sleep. These past few weeks, life has been...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Why Do You Have Sex? A Guide to Understanding Your Sexual Motivations
Most people don’t think about why they have sex. Explore 12 common reasons, reflect on your own motivations, and learn how intentional sex can improve intimacy, pleasure, and self-awareness.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


How to Be Better in Bed: Signs Your Partner Is Unsatisfied and How to Improve Your Sex Life
Good sex requires more than technique. Discover how honesty, effort, and engagement can transform your bedroom experience.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20254 min read
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