Freakin' Me: Sexual Fantasies!

By: Jay Dee, MPH

Sexual fantasies are erotic thoughts of images, that stirs a person’s sexual curiosity! Not all fantasies are unorthodox. Nor do they have to be performed! These fantasies can be as simple as sex in a bubble bath or as extreme as being double penetrated by 2 lovers while tied and gagged with a view of a beautiful sunset on the beach….(I read a lot of romance novels LOL). Fantasies can also be used as a tool for masturbation and arousal. But let’s talk about the trigger…where do they come from exactly?

1.    A lack of something…affection, spontaneity, thrill etc.

2.    Erotic performances (i.e., TV, cinema, media, listening to or reading spicy stories)

3.    Curiosity of escaping one’s reality

This list could continue but I think you get the gist. No matter where your fantasies originate, just know it’s ok to have thoughts or desires you don’t normally practice! Your fantasies do not change your sexual orientation (who you like) and it doesn’t define your character! So try your best refraining from embarrassment due to the judgement of others. Besides, you’ll be surprised at the things people do in their bedroom....chileee!

Just make sure if you decide to perform a sexual fantasy, you obtain informed consent, you are safe, and there’s a plan in place for aftercare! Oh and most importantly, avoid doing anything with fuck boys!

Now turn to your self-pleasure workbook, Table For One, and Journal your fantasies. Complete the exercise so that you are clear on what you want to do with your fantasies! This is your world, live baby.

Click here to grab your workbook, Table For One! 

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator