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How to Talk About Sex: Communicate Your Sexual Desires for Better Intimacy
Open, honest communication about sexual desires is key to a fulfilling sex life. Learn practical ways to discuss intimacy outside the bedroom, give and receive feedback, and embrace change as your desires evolve.
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2 days ago2 min read


Low Libido? How to Increase Your Sex Drive Naturally
Struggling with low libido? It’s normal for your sex drive to fluctuate with age, stress, and life circumstances. Learn why desire changes over time, the common causes of low sex drive, and practical tips to naturally boost intimacy and reconnect with your partner.
thevaginaliberator
Jan 42 min read


When the Roles Reverse: The Emotional Reality of Caring for a Parent.
And while caretakers carry a heavy load, parents themselves are grieving too. They feel the shift, the loss of independence, the fear of becoming a burden.
thevaginaliberator
Nov 23, 20253 min read


Sexual Discipline: Can Too Many Partners Keep You From Finding Love?
What exactly are you looking for––connection, validation, or just the adrenaline rush of new flesh? Because here’s the truth: no amount of bodies in your bed will fill a void that lives in your heart.
thevaginaliberator
Sep 21, 20252 min read


Rules To Fucking Your Friend
If it happens within a friend group, you can try to keep it a secret. Spoiler alert: it’s never really a secret. Do what you want with that info!
thevaginaliberator
Sep 14, 20252 min read


Phone Sex: The Art of Anticipation
Phone sex is foreplay, period.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 31, 20252 min read


Cum Facials & Swallowing: Why Men Love Them?
Ok Let's Get Into Swallowing, What Makes It Enjoyable?
In that moment, men are at their weakest. To be completely taken in feels vulnerable, almost like handing over their entire body and energy.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 20, 20253 min read


Cuckolding – Fantasy, Taboo, or Turn-On?
cuckolding can look very different from couple to couple. Some partners simply watch—sitting back, taking it in, and sometimes masturbating to the moment.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 17, 20252 min read


Anal Sex: Relax That Ass
By: Jay Dee, MPH Anal sex can absolutely be enjoyed by heterosexual couples. It’s often described as a mix of pain and pleasure—a complex, yet rewarding experience when approached with care. If you’re curious but nervous, I created a beginner-friendly Anal Sex Toolkit to help guide you through the journey with confidence and comfort: 1. Relax that ass: Start with a partner you trust—someone who genuinely cares about your comfort and well-being. Choose a cozy position and re
thevaginaliberator
Aug 13, 20252 min read


Pegging 101: Exploring Pleasure, Power, and Trust in the Bedroom
Pegging blends pleasure, dominance, and trust. Learn what it is, why people enjoy it, and how to explore it safely with your partner.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 10, 20252 min read


How Long Should Sex Last?
The cycle of sex and the minutes penetration and sex should last.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 3, 20254 min read


The Final Act of Sex: Aftercare
Aftercare after sex isn’t just a nice gesture—it’s essential for emotional balance and intimacy. Learn practical ways to check in, cuddle, and care for each other post-intimacy.
thevaginaliberator
Jul 27, 20253 min read


Why Parents Should Allow Teen Dating With Parental Guidance
Teen dating doesn’t have to be risky or secretive. With parental guidance, supervised dating helps kids develop communication skills, emotional intelligence, and healthy boundaries before adulthood.
thevaginaliberator
Jul 17, 20254 min read


Realistic Dating Expectations: Why Social Media Luxury Isn’t Love
Stop letting social media define your dating expectations. Discover how realistic financial standards and mutual effort build healthier relationships.
thevaginaliberator
Jul 6, 20252 min read


Monogamy vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy: Understanding Your Relationship Options
Monogamy isn’t the only way to build a healthy relationship. Ethical non-monogamy prioritizes honesty, consent, and communication—and for some couples, it works better than exclusivity.
thevaginaliberator
May 30, 20253 min read


Best Sex Positions for a Small Penis | Pleasure Without Pain
Sex with a man who has a smaller penis can still be incredibly pleasurable. The secret lies in understanding anatomy and choosing positions that work.
thevaginaliberator
May 29, 20252 min read


Mother
By: Jay Dee, MPH Before she became a mother, she was a woman. Once a little girl who had dreams and aspirations. As we are getting...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Why I Choose Serial Dating Over Being Someone’s Girlfriend
I choose serial dating over being someone’s girlfriend. Dating multiple people intentionally helps me explore connections, set boundaries, and gain clarity—without blind loyalty to a maybe.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Attraction
By: Jay Dee, MPH Recently my homeboy asked me, "Do you think you attract the same men?" The conversation began.... I always hear...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20251 min read


For Sale: Why Men Should Hire Sex Workers Instead of Pretending to Date
If all a man wants is sex, hiring a sex worker can be a smarter, honest choice than pretending to date. Learn why transparency, transactional sex, and ethical casual encounters save time, reduce drama, and get exactly what you want.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20251 min read
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