Slowing down pleasure can feel more powerful than rushing to the finish. Gooning and edging are often confused, but they’re actually different practices rooted in awareness, control, and extended sensation. Here’s what to know before trying either.

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Never engage in any sexual activity while the car is moving.

She slid into the corner of the room, sitting cross-legged on the plush carpet, hidden in the shadows of the color-shifting LED lights. As Daisha devoured Siera’s lips, her hips swayed back and forth, glowing harness catching the light.

If it happens within a friend group, you can try to keep it a secret. Spoiler alert: it’s never really a secret. Do what you want with that info!

This kink usually lives under bodily fluid play and often overlaps with dominance and submission dynamics. But here’s the key: not everyone enjoys spit

Ok Let's Get Into Swallowing, What Makes It Enjoyable? In that moment, men are at their weakest. To be completely taken in feels vulnerable, almost like handing over their entire body and energy.

cuckolding can look very different from couple to couple. Some partners simply watch—sitting back, taking it in, and sometimes masturbating to the moment.

By: Jay Dee, MPH Anal sex can absolutely be enjoyed by heterosexual couples. It’s often described as a mix of pain and pleasure—a complex, yet rewarding experience when approached with care. If you’re curious but nervous, I created a beginner-friendly Anal Sex Toolkit to help guide you through the journey with confidence and comfort: 1. Relax that ass: Start with a partner you trust—someone who genuinely cares about your comfort and well-being. Choose a cozy position and re

Pegging blends pleasure, dominance, and trust. Learn what it is, why people enjoy it, and how to explore it safely with your partner.

High school students, especially Black girls, are at risk of sexual assault and trafficking. School staff can play a vital role in spotting red flags, intervening, and protecting teens.

Teen dating doesn’t have to be risky or secretive. With parental guidance, supervised dating helps kids develop communication skills, emotional intelligence, and healthy boundaries before adulthood.

Stop letting social media define your dating expectations. Discover how realistic financial standards and mutual effort build healthier relationships.

Monogamy isn’t the only way to build a healthy relationship. Ethical non-monogamy prioritizes honesty, consent, and communication—and for some couples, it works better than exclusivity.

I choose serial dating over being someone’s girlfriend. Dating multiple people intentionally helps me explore connections, set boundaries, and gain clarity—without blind loyalty to a maybe.

By: Jay Dee, MPH Having sex on the first night is a grown-ass activity. PERREIT. Plenty of women are down for casual sex, but many hold...

By: Jay Dee, MPH Do humiliation turn you on? Think about it, you’re having sex and your partner says, “Roll your fat ass over"  and...

By: Jay Dee, MPH Consent Doesn’t Expire in Relationships Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re entitled to someone’s...

By: Jay Dee, MPH Pussy Has Been on Sale Since 2400 BCE—Let’s Talk About It Sex in exchange for value isn’t new. In fact, prostitution has...

By: Jay Dee, MPH Let’s Talk About Sexual Fantasies Sexual fantasies don’t have to be wild or extreme. Sometimes, they’re as simple as...