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Bisexual Men and Down-Low Culture: Breaking Misconceptions and Stigma
Many men who have sex with men remain discreet due to societal stigma. Learn how understanding bisexuality and down-low culture can foster honesty and reduce secrecy.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Hydrating Snack for Sexual Health: Mango Sorbet to Boost Libido
Stay hydrated and sexy this summer! Discover hydrating fruits and a simple 3-ingredient mango sorbet recipe that supports sexual health and boosts libido.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Never Settle
By: Jay Dee, MPH Have you ever heard the expression, "Barbecue or mildew?" It simply means to do something (barbecue) or do nothing...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Body-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody
By: Jay Dee, MPH Cosmetic Surgery has been around since the 16th century! Timmie Jean Lindsey is documented as the first woman to receive silicone breast implants in 1962! Initially and for many years, white and wealthy women had more access to cosmetic surgery than any other groups. Over the past few decades, that access has been extended to more black women. And thanks to social media, it is now widely discussed! I actually think that is a good thing. Regardless of t
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Social Media Is Not A Real Place
By: Jay Dee, MPH “Never desire what others have because you don’t know what they did to get it and you don’t know what they’re doing to...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


The Third Date Was A Baecation
By: Jay Dee, MPH Hakuna Matata, With a Little Street Smarts This is your sign to live ! Life is full of unexpected turns, but I’m...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20253 min read


Masturbate More
By: Jay Dee, MPH The Real Benefits of Masturbation (And Why You Should Be Doing It More Often, Sis) Pain relief. Stress reduction. Better...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Reasons Women Have Sex: Pleasure, Power, and Personal Choice
Learn the reasons women have sex and how consent, protection, and personal choice shape sexual empowerment and safety.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Helping Pre-Teens Navigate Sexual Desire: Delay First Sexual Encounter
Guiding pre-teens to understand sexual desire helps them build confidence, delay first sexual encounters, and make safer choices.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Reciprocity In Relationships is Sexy: 5 Easy Ways to Show Love to Your Man
Reciprocity in relationships keeps love thriving. Discover 5 easy ways to show appreciation, affection, and intention with your partner.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Let Yourself Go
By: Jay Dee, MPH Dating is tough. We all know it. But the real challenge? Spotting red flags early and walking away —even when they check...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Take Care Of Your Body
By: Jay Dee, MPH Finally…the sun is shining!! I love this time of the year! The weather is perfect, the vibes are perfect, and the days...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


New Sex Leads To Great Sex
By Jay Dee, MPH Here are 5 sexual things you can explore that may be new: 1. Double Penetration If you’re into anal play, engage in...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read


Music During Sex: Why a “Fuck-List” Can Transform Your Sexual Experience
Music during sex heightens pleasure, sets the mood, and improves connection. Learn how a ‘Fuck-List’ can transform your sex life.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20253 min read


Sexual Healing & Intimacy
By: Jay Dee, MPH I had the opportunity to speak for Rolling Out's Peace and Purpose Virtual conference. Jackie Clarke interviewed me to...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read


How to Give a Blowjob: Master the 3 W’s for Mind-Blowing Oral Sex
Discover how to give a blowjob that’s wet, warm, and full of wow. Tips for oral sex mastery and pleasure for you and your partner.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20253 min read


Date Them All
By: Jay Dee, MPH A lot of women shy away from dating multiple people simultaneously ! I always hear, “I can’t keep up with multiple...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read


Reset
By: Jay Dee, MPH We’re in a time where the trust in dating is a bit shaky! Almost as if there’s a battle of the sexes happening before...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read


Dry Pussy?
By: Jay Dee, MPH One thing is certain, with life comes aging, and aging bring on change! At some point in your life, you may experience vaginal dryness that can be the result of a few things like: Permanent Ovarian Insufficiency (POI), the use of birth control, antidepressants, menopause, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), hysterectomy, childbirth, breast feeding etc. this is literally the tip of the iceberg! But what do you do, not enjoy sex? Absolutely not! That is neve
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Sex With You is Amazing
By: Jay Dee, MPH Self-Pleasure Should Never Be Optional Now before you start rolling your eyes—yes, I’m talking about masturbation. But...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read
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