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Book Lovers pt. 3: Vengeance By Zane
By:Jay Dee, MPH Vengeance written by Zane Caprice Tatum left Atlanta at 14 after experiencing deep betrayal by people she once trusted....
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Jul 30, 20251 min read


The Final Act of Sex: Aftercare
Aftercare after sex isn’t just a nice gesture—it’s essential for emotional balance and intimacy. Learn practical ways to check in, cuddle, and care for each other post-intimacy.
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Jul 27, 20254 min read


Why Parents Should Allow Teen Dating With Parental Guidance
Teen dating doesn’t have to be risky or secretive. With parental guidance, supervised dating helps kids develop communication skills, emotional intelligence, and healthy boundaries before adulthood.
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Jul 17, 20255 min read


Hot Spots & Slow Starts: Why Foreplay and Erogenous Zones Matter
By: Jay Dee, MPH Hey, pleasure seekers—let’s talk about two things that can dramatically improve your sex life: erogenous zones and...
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Jul 8, 20253 min read


Realistic Dating Expectations: Why Social Media Luxury Isn’t Love
Stop letting social media define your dating expectations. Discover how realistic financial standards and mutual effort build healthier relationships.
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Jul 6, 20252 min read


Female Ejaculation Explained: What Really Happens When a Woman Squirts
Learn the truth about female ejaculation. Understand what squirting is, how it happens, and tips for exploring pleasure safely and confidently.
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Jun 30, 20253 min read


Book Lovers pt 2: The HouseMaid Trilogy By Frieda McFadden
Book review of the HouseMaid trilogy
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Jun 22, 20253 min read


Monogamy vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy: Understanding Your Relationship Options
Monogamy isn’t the only way to build a healthy relationship. Ethical non-monogamy prioritizes honesty, consent, and communication—and for some couples, it works better than exclusivity.
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May 30, 20253 min read


Best Sex Positions for a Small Penis | Pleasure Without Pain
Sex with a man who has a smaller penis can still be incredibly pleasurable. The secret lies in understanding anatomy and choosing positions that work.
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May 29, 20253 min read


The Cost of Courage: One Woman's Breast Cancer Fight!
By: Jay Dee, MPH Chanel Mills reflects the financial strain, emotional impact, and the truth about fighting cancer as a 35 year old...
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May 29, 20258 min read


Book Lovers
By: Jay Dee, MPH My favorite author is Ashley Antoinette. My introduction to her was through Jaquavis Coleman, The Dopeman's Wife Trilogy!...
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May 24, 20252 min read


Mother
By: Jay Dee, MPH Before she became a mother, she was a woman. Once a little girl who had dreams and aspirations. As we are getting...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Boost Vaginal Lubrication Naturally: Tips to Stay Wet & Comfortable
Discover how to naturally boost vaginal lubrication at home with simple tips on clitoral stimulation, hydration, and self-care. Stay comfortable, enhance pleasure, and support vaginal health naturally.
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May 23, 20253 min read


Length Retention for Black Hair: Summer Hair Care Tips That Actually Work
Length retention—not growth—is the real challenge for Black hair. Learn how scalp health, proper shampooing, low-manipulation styles, and simple routines can help you retain length all summer long.
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May 23, 20254 min read


BV is an STI
By: Jay Dee, MPH The vagina naturally has bacteria. But when there's an overgrowth of bacteria, women develop Bacterial Vaginosis (BV). An imbalance of bacteria in the vagina can occur from: Douching (please don't) The use of soap (inside....please don't) Hormonal changes Tight clothing The list can continue..... However, BV can be passed sexually. Upon further research, The New England Journal suggested that BV should be documented as an STI. This is ground-breaking b
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May 23, 20252 min read


Why I Choose Serial Dating Over Being Someone’s Girlfriend
I choose serial dating over being someone’s girlfriend. Dating multiple people intentionally helps me explore connections, set boundaries, and gain clarity—without blind loyalty to a maybe.
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May 23, 20252 min read


Attraction
By: Jay Dee, MPH Recently my homeboy asked me, "Do you think you attract the same men?" The conversation began.... I always hear...
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May 23, 20251 min read


Sex Is Transactional: Why Men Should Stop Pretending and Hire Sex Workers
If all a man wants is sex, hiring a sex worker can be a smarter, honest choice than pretending to date. Learn why transparency, transactional sex, and ethical casual encounters save time, reduce drama, and get exactly what you want.
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May 23, 20254 min read


Save Yourself: Overcoming Extreme Sadness
By: Jay Dee, MPH No one is coming to save you! Get up and start moving! The life you want is a life you have to work hard for... To...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Trust
By: Jay Dee, MPH My man my man my man.... I met a woman recently who came to get tested for HIV. While we talked, she shared that her...
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May 23, 20252 min read
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