Many men who have sex with men remain discreet due to societal stigma. Learn how understanding bisexuality and down-low culture can foster honesty and reduce secrecy.

By: Jay Dee, MPH Hakuna Matata, With a Little Street Smarts This is your sign to live ! Life is full of unexpected turns, but I’m...

Masturbation isn’t just about orgasms—it’s about pleasure, confidence, and self-discovery. Learn how daily self-pleasure, whether through sex, solo play, or simple indulgences, can transform your body, mind, and sexual confidence.

Guiding pre-teens to understand sexual desire helps them build confidence, delay first sexual encounters, and make safer choices.

By Jay Dee, MPH Here are 5 sexual things  you can explore that may be new:   1. Double Penetration If you’re into anal play, engage in...

Music during sex heightens pleasure, sets the mood, and improves connection. Learn how a ‘Fuck-List’ can transform your sex life.

Discover how to give a blowjob that’s wet, warm, and full of wow. Tips for oral sex mastery and pleasure for you and your partner.

By: Jay Dee, MPH One thing is certain, with life comes aging, and aging bring on change!   At some point in your life, you may experience vaginal dryness  that can be the result of a few things like: Permanent Ovarian Insufficiency (POI), the use of birth control, antidepressants, menopause, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), hysterectomy, childbirth, breast feeding etc. this is literally the tip of the iceberg!   But what do you do, not enjoy sex? Absolutely not! That is neve

By: Jay Dee, MPH Self-Pleasure Should Never Be Optional Now before you start rolling your eyes—yes, I’m talking about masturbation. But...

By: Jay Dee, MPH Ever practiced celibacy or abstinence? Let’s break it down clearly so we’re on the same page. According to...

Celibacy isn’t a shortcut—it’s a practice for self-discovery, emotional clarity, and personal growth. Explore your body and boundaries.

By: Jay Dee, MPH I’ve got a playful challenge for you: buy yourself a few costumes and step into the world of role-play with your...

By: Jay Dee, MPH There often comes a point in relationships when sex starts to feel... predictable. Maybe even a little uninspired. If...

Lube isn’t just for dryness. Boost pleasure, reduce friction, and make solo or partner play more enjoyable with lubricants for sex.

Bullet vibrators aren’t just for solo play—learn 4 creative ways to use them with a partner and amplify clitoral and vulva stimulation.

By: Jay Dee, MPH Erotica is a powerful way to expand your sexual horizons. It offers a glimpse into someone else’s fantasies—sometimes wildly different from your own—and that can be both exciting and eye-opening. While you may not agree with or want to act on every fantasy you encounter, discovering a secret community of people who share similar desires can feel refreshing and validating. Remember, fantasies don’t have to be acted upon, nor do they define your sexuality. Inst

By: Jay Dee, MPH Sex initiation is seen as being wanted, desired! Often times as women, it's easy for us to be sought after sexually....

By: Jay Dee, MPH When was the last time you really thought about your fantasies—the ones that make you feel that spark? Yes, those secret desires you don’t usually say out loud. Grab some paper, sticky notes (three different colors if you can), and a pen. Ready? Write down every fantasy that comes to mind on your paper. Then, assign each sticky note color to a category: Yes (definitely want to try) No (completely off the table) Maybe (open to it, but not fully convinced)

Vaginal dryness can happen at any age and for many reasons—not just low estrogen or menopause. From birth control to medications and stress, here’s what causes vaginal dryness and what you can do about it.