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Sex In The Heat
By: Jay Dee, MPH Researchers have noted that an increase in one's sex drive during the spring doesn’t exist. In fact, men’s testosterone...
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May 23, 20251 min read


My Uterine Fibroids Have Been Kicking My Ass
Uterine fibroids affect millions of women and can impact your periods, energy, and skin. Discover how to recognize the signs, manage symptoms, and advocate for your health
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May 23, 20252 min read


Las Doce Uvas De La Suerte
By: Jay Dee, MPH "The 12 grapes of luck." In the 1800s, the spaniards created a New Year ritual for good fortune and prosperity. Starting at 11:59pm on December 31st, one should eat 12 grapes to represent the 12 months of the year. All the grapes should be finished in one minute to receive luck, success, and positive energy in the new year. Recently on TikTok, women who participated in the ritual last year posted about the incredible love they endured this year because of t
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May 23, 20251 min read


The Game Gon Test You, Don't Fold. -Nipsey Hussle
By: Jay Dee, MPH What a Fucking Year (2023)! Almost every person in my life endured a storm. God literally carried me through this...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Exercise and Sex: How Working Out Improves Libido, Erections, and Vaginal Lubrication in the New Year
Exercise isn’t just about weight loss—it’s one of the most powerful ways to improve your sex life. From stronger erections to increased vaginal lubrication, movement supports blood flow, arousal, confidence, and pleasure. Here’s why moving your body should be part of your New Year lifestyle reset.
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May 22, 20253 min read


Mind Over Matter
By: Jay Dee, MPH Lately, I've been feeling amazing! It's no secret that my favorite self-pleasure act is exercising. But if I'm being...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read


Freakin' Me: Sexual Fantasies!
By: Jay Dee, MPH Let’s Talk About Sexual Fantasies Sexual fantasies don’t have to be wild or extreme. Sometimes, they’re as simple as...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Naked Confidence: How Being Nude Builds Sexual Confidence and Self-Love
Naked confidence grows when you spend time in your body. Learn how nudity supports self-love, sexual confidence, and vaginal health.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20253 min read


Bisexual Men and Down-Low Culture: Breaking Misconceptions and Stigma
Many men who have sex with men remain discreet due to societal stigma. Learn how understanding bisexuality and down-low culture can foster honesty and reduce secrecy.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Hydrating Snack for Sexual Health: Mango Sorbet to Boost Libido
Stay hydrated and sexy this summer! Discover hydrating fruits and a simple 3-ingredient mango sorbet recipe that supports sexual health and boosts libido.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Body-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody
By: Jay Dee, MPH Cosmetic Surgery has been around since the 16th century! Timmie Jean Lindsey is documented as the first woman to receive silicone breast implants in 1962! Initially and for many years, white and wealthy women had more access to cosmetic surgery than any other groups. Over the past few decades, that access has been extended to more black women. And thanks to social media, it is now widely discussed! I actually think that is a good thing. Regardless of t
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May 22, 20252 min read


Social Media Is Not A Real Place
By: Jay Dee, MPH “Never desire what others have because you don’t know what they did to get it and you don’t know what they’re doing to...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Reasons Women Have Sex: Pleasure, Power, and Personal Choice
Learn the reasons women have sex and how consent, protection, and personal choice shape sexual empowerment and safety.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Helping Pre-Teens Navigate Sexual Desire: Delay First Sexual Encounter
Guiding pre-teens to understand sexual desire helps them build confidence, delay first sexual encounters, and make safer choices.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Take Care Of Your Body
By: Jay Dee, MPH Finally…the sun is shining!! I love this time of the year! The weather is perfect, the vibes are perfect, and the days...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Sexual Healing & Intimacy
By: Jay Dee, MPH I had the opportunity to speak for Rolling Out's Peace and Purpose Virtual conference. Jackie Clarke interviewed me to...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read


Dry Pussy?
By: Jay Dee, MPH One thing is certain, with life comes aging, and aging bring on change! At some point in your life, you may experience vaginal dryness that can be the result of a few things like: Permanent Ovarian Insufficiency (POI), the use of birth control, antidepressants, menopause, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), hysterectomy, childbirth, breast feeding etc. this is literally the tip of the iceberg! But what do you do, not enjoy sex? Absolutely not! That is neve
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May 22, 20252 min read


Reproductive Freedom: Understanding Your Body and the Importance of Abortion Access
Reproductive freedom means access to abortion and understanding your body. Track ovulation, prevent unintended pregnancy, and protect your health.
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20252 min read


Hydrate Your Body
By: Jay Dee, MPH This is a hot summer! Heat can create an increase in sweat and dehydration. This means body odor and a slightly dry...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read


A Guide To Being FNF
By: Jay Dee, MPH You’re probably thinking, “another self-care” guide! No sugar, this is all about self-pleasure! In order to increase...
thevaginaliberator
May 22, 20251 min read
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