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Sweet but Costly: How Excessive Sugar Intake Harms Your Sex Drive and Sexual Health
High sugar intake doesn’t just affect your waistline — it can disrupt hormones, reduce blood flow, zap energy, worsen acne, and even lower libido. Learn how much sugar you should eat, why too much sugar impacts your reproductive health, and practical, science-backed ways to cut cravings and protect your body and confidence.
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4 days ago3 min read


Sex With a Big Penis: What “Big” Really Means, What Your Body Feels, and How to Make It Better
Sex with a big penis can feel amazing—or painful—depending on anatomy, arousal, and positioning. Learn what size is considered large, how vaginas expand, and how to make sex more comfortable.
thevaginaliberator
Jan 255 min read


Aphrodisiacs: How Food Creates Sexual Arousal
Your sex drive isn’t just in your head — it’s in your blood, hormones, and plate. Feed your body like you love your pleasure
thevaginaliberator
Oct 5, 20255 min read


Let’s Talk About Erectile Dysfunction (ED) — With Honesty
Using a "c-ring" aka the cock ring during sex can help one sustain an erection.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 27, 20253 min read


Spit Play: The Raw Intimacy of Mouth-to-Mouth
Spit play combines intimacy, trust, and erotic power exchange. Explore the roles, hygiene tips, and consent practices that make spitting in someone’s mouth a thrilling and safe kink.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 24, 20252 min read


How Long Should Sex Last?
Wondering how long sex should last? Explore the full picture—from foreplay and emotional connection to penetration, orgasm, and aftercare—and discover what truly makes sexual experiences satisfying for both partners.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 3, 20255 min read


The Cost of Courage: One Woman's Breast Cancer Fight!
By: Jay Dee, MPH Chanel Mills reflects the financial strain, emotional impact, and the truth about fighting cancer as a 35 year old...
thevaginaliberator
May 29, 20258 min read


Length Retention for Black Hair: Summer Hair Care Tips That Actually Work
Length retention—not growth—is the real challenge for Black hair. Learn how scalp health, proper shampooing, low-manipulation styles, and simple routines can help you retain length all summer long.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20254 min read


BV is an STI
By: Jay Dee, MPH The vagina naturally has bacteria. But when there's an overgrowth of bacteria, women develop Bacterial Vaginosis (BV). An imbalance of bacteria in the vagina can occur from: Douching (please don't) The use of soap (inside....please don't) Hormonal changes Tight clothing The list can continue..... However, BV can be passed sexually. Upon further research, The New England Journal suggested that BV should be documented as an STI. This is ground-breaking b
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Save Yourself: Overcoming Extreme Sadness
By: Jay Dee, MPH No one is coming to save you! Get up and start moving! The life you want is a life you have to work hard for... To...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Self-Breast Exams: How Early Detection Can Save Your Life
Check your breasts monthly, detect changes early, and understand TNBC risk. Awareness, early detection, and self-exams save lives.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Menopause and Sex: Hormone Changes, Libido, and Sexual Wellness
Learn how menopause affects sex, libido, and vaginal health. Discover evidence-based tips for sexual wellness, hormone support, intimacy, and self-care during and after menopause.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20253 min read


Zodiac
By: Jay Dee, MPH Zodiac signs were first charted by the Babylonians around 450 BCE. Many people use zodiac signs to determine others...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


High Testosterone in Women: Symptoms, Causes, and How to Balance Hormones
Experiencing acne, hair thinning, or weight gain? These could be signs of high testosterone in women. Discover causes, symptoms, and effective ways to balance hormones naturally and medically.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20253 min read


Double Mastectomy: My Journey with Breast Cancer Risk
Facing a high risk of breast cancer, I’m exploring the idea of a double mastectomy. From BRCA testing to family history, here’s my personal story and advice for staying vigilant.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20253 min read


13 Weeks Pregnant
By: Jay Dee, MPH Remember those fibroids I told you about a few months ago? Well according to my new OBGYN, they are collectively the...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Give Your Coochie a Break: Why Going Panty-Free Boosts Vaginal Health
Even if going commando in public feels too bold, sleeping without underwear gives your vulva a much-needed break. It improves airflow
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20253 min read


Pubic Hair Care: Shave, Wax, or Go Bare? Expert Tips for a Healthy Vulva
Discover the pros and cons of keeping “Big Mama” bare or natural. Learn how pubic hair protects your skin, reduces friction, and which grooming methods—shaving, waxing, Nair, or laser—work best for you.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20254 min read


You Are What They Swallow: How Diet Impacts Sexual Fluids
Your diet affects how your semen and vaginal fluid taste. Discover hydration, nutrition, and lifestyle tips to improve sexual pleasure.
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


Sex In The Heat
By: Jay Dee, MPH Researchers have noted that an increase in one's sex drive during the spring doesn’t exist. In fact, men’s testosterone...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20251 min read
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