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Cum Facials & Swallowing: Why Men Love Them?
Ok Let's Get Into Swallowing, What Makes It Enjoyable?
In that moment, men are at their weakest. To be completely taken in feels vulnerable, almost like handing over their entire body and energy.
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Aug 20, 20253 min read


Cuckolding – Fantasy, Taboo, or Turn-On?
cuckolding can look very different from couple to couple. Some partners simply watch—sitting back, taking it in, and sometimes masturbating to the moment.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 17, 20252 min read


Book Lovers pt. 4: Swiped By Shawana King
Swiped by Shawana “Shay” King is a gripping true story of hustle, love, and betrayal. From bailing her dad out at 14 to becoming the “credit card queen,” Shay’s journey is as raw as it is unforgettable.
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Aug 15, 20252 min read


Anal Sex: Relax That Ass
By: Jay Dee, MPH Anal sex can absolutely be enjoyed by heterosexual couples. It’s often described as a mix of pain and pleasure—a complex, yet rewarding experience when approached with care. If you’re curious but nervous, I created a beginner-friendly Anal Sex Toolkit to help guide you through the journey with confidence and comfort: 1. Relax that ass: Start with a partner you trust—someone who genuinely cares about your comfort and well-being. Choose a cozy position and re
thevaginaliberator
Aug 13, 20252 min read


Pegging 101: Exploring Pleasure, Power, and Trust in the Bedroom
Pegging blends pleasure, dominance, and trust. Learn what it is, why people enjoy it, and how to explore it safely with your partner.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 10, 20252 min read


Sexual Assault, Grooming, and Trafficking in Schools: A Guide for Staff
High school students, especially Black girls, are at risk of sexual assault and trafficking. School staff can play a vital role in spotting red flags, intervening, and protecting teens.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 6, 20253 min read


How Long Should Sex Last?
The cycle of sex and the minutes penetration and sex should last.
thevaginaliberator
Aug 3, 20254 min read


Book Lovers pt. 3: Vengeance By Zane
By:Jay Dee, MPH Vengeance written by Zane Caprice Tatum left Atlanta at 14 after experiencing deep betrayal by people she once trusted....
thevaginaliberator
Jul 30, 20251 min read


The Final Act of Sex: Aftercare
Aftercare after sex isn’t just a nice gesture—it’s essential for emotional balance and intimacy. Learn practical ways to check in, cuddle, and care for each other post-intimacy.
thevaginaliberator
Jul 27, 20253 min read


Why Parents Should Allow Teen Dating With Parental Guidance
Teen dating doesn’t have to be risky or secretive. With parental guidance, supervised dating helps kids develop communication skills, emotional intelligence, and healthy boundaries before adulthood.
thevaginaliberator
Jul 17, 20254 min read


Hot Spots & Slow Starts: Why Foreplay and Erogenous Zones Matter
By: Jay Dee, MPH Hey, pleasure seekers—let’s talk about two things that can dramatically improve your sex life: erogenous zones and...
thevaginaliberator
Jul 8, 20253 min read


Realistic Dating Expectations: Why Social Media Luxury Isn’t Love
Stop letting social media define your dating expectations. Discover how realistic financial standards and mutual effort build healthier relationships.
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Jul 6, 20252 min read


Is Squirting Urinating?
By: Jay Dee, MPH What Really Happens When a Woman Squirts Let’s talk about female ejaculation aka "squirting" —a topic that’s often misunderstood, highly debated, and rarely explained in a clear, evidence-based way. The Anatomy Behind Squirting The urethra is a small opening located just beneath the clitoral hood and above the vaginal opening . On either side of the urethral opening are two tiny, pea-sized glands called the Skene's glands (also known as the female prostate
thevaginaliberator
Jun 30, 20252 min read


Book Lovers pt 2: The HouseMaid Trilogy By Frieda McFadden
Book review of the HouseMaid trilogy
thevaginaliberator
Jun 22, 20253 min read


Monogamy vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy: Understanding Your Relationship Options
Monogamy isn’t the only way to build a healthy relationship. Ethical non-monogamy prioritizes honesty, consent, and communication—and for some couples, it works better than exclusivity.
thevaginaliberator
May 30, 20253 min read


Best Sex Positions for a Small Penis | Pleasure Without Pain
Sex with a man who has a smaller penis can still be incredibly pleasurable. The secret lies in understanding anatomy and choosing positions that work.
thevaginaliberator
May 29, 20252 min read


The Cost of Courage: One Woman's Breast Cancer Fight!
By: Jay Dee, MPH Chanel Mills reflects the financial strain, emotional impact, and the truth about fighting cancer as a 35 year old...
thevaginaliberator
May 29, 20258 min read


Book Lovers
By: Jay Dee, MPH My favorite author is Ashley Antoinette. My introduction to her was through Jaquavis Coleman, The Dopeman's Wife Trilogy!...
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May 23, 20252 min read


Mother
By: Jay Dee, MPH Before she became a mother, she was a woman. Once a little girl who had dreams and aspirations. As we are getting...
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read


WAP: Tips For A Wet Ass Pussy
By: Jay Dee, MPH Boosting Your Vaginal Lubrication—At Home! Yes, sis—it’s absolutely possible to support your vaginal lubrication naturally from the comfort of your home. But if you're currently on medication or have a medical condition, it’s always wise to check in with your OBGYN first. Your body deserves both care and clarity! Now, let’s talk anatomy for a second. There are two pairs of glands inside the vulva responsible for producing vaginal lubrication: The Skene’s gla
thevaginaliberator
May 23, 20252 min read
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