Serial Dater

By: Jay Dee, MPH

You know what I want this season?

Bomb sex.

Amazing dates.

Intelligent conversations.

All from an attractive, generous, honest man!

Years ago I decided I no longer want to be a girlfriend. As a matter of fact, when I was with that terrible man for all those years, I told myself if this doesn't work out this will be my last time being someone's girlfriend. Well, I went against myself and became a girlfriend AGAIN....(eye roll). This go around I have been standing firm on my decision.

I truly enjoy dating. I love dating multiple people at once. It's adventurous, invigorating, my energy be on another level. I have autonomy over the direction of my love life.

Giving years to one person in hopes of it transitioning to marriage....no!

I know the question of cheating or knowing if a man can commit came to your mind. (sigh) cheaters get married every day B!

Measuring someone's character is simple. Are they honest, do they show up for you and others, how well do they keep their word, do they communicate when changes have been made? How do they handle failure and success? What are their relationships like with their friends and family? Through spending quality time and observing people, these questions and more will be answered. If you accept the answers, that's on you!

Dating is not always monogamous.

Dating has commitments.

Dating is a learning tool.

Dating can lead to engagement to marriage.

Dating is not one size fits all.

Dating is however YOU see fit.

Are you a serial (multiple) dater or an exclusive (one person) dater?

Why did you select that choice? ("I want to" is definitely an answer).

Document your dating journey in Table For One.

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator