Reset

By: Jay Dee, MPH

We’re in a time where the trust in dating is a bit shaky! Almost as if there’s a battle of the sexes happening before our eyes. Let’s reset and start over! Dating, love…it is all a gamble. But it doesn’t have to be a treacherous game. Grant it, how someone else choose to behave is completely out of control. You can’t change others but you can change how you deal with them.

Show up in your dating life with truth and ease! I’m a fan of delusion but everyone you encounter is not the one….that’s ok! Date to have a good time and some grown attention. Enjoy yourself, allow your interest(s) to teach you something new about yourself, life, art, culture, etc. Other than searching for the “one,” use dating as a tool to help you establish and set boundaries, become assertive about your expectations, and discuss your desires freely during courtship.   

Reset your perspective about dating.

No more holding on to the possibility of what it could be. Staying too long not only makes it harder to let go, but that’s also the start of creating problems for yourself. It’s perfectly fine to keep starting over until you get it right! That means, move on. Remember, the dating stage has no commitment! Don’t force it. Enjoy yourself until you’re no longer enjoying yourself! Breathe and date them all!

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator