Date Them All

By: Jay Dee, MPH

A lot of women shy away from dating multiple people simultaneously! I always hear, “I can’t keep up with multiple people at the same time.” Yes you can, here’s how:

1. Friendship

Balance your contenders the same as you do your friends. At this point, establishing a friendship should be your priority. Just like you can remember this friend’s childhood story about the time they skipped school and another friend’s meticulous food order at a particular restaurant, learning new contenders is literally the same concept.

2. Time management

Schedule dates and give each one your undivided attention. Fully engage in meaningful conversations, trust me details will stick with you! Also be honest. Let them all know you’re dating multiple people. Trust me, they have someone around as well.

3. Be choosy

Try to keep at least 3 people in rotation. One you will really like, the other may have some potential if you first choice wasn’t available. The third will most likely be your ultimate fun person! But like something about all of them, or else it won’t work as great.

Dating is a game but it doesn’t have to be cutthroat! Prioritize yourself, divide your time, and be honest…not just to them, but to yourself as well.

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator