Men Are Bisexual

By: Jay Dee, MPH

A few weeks ago, I saw a clip on instagram where this woman said she dates bi/sexual men.

 

Yes she's a black woman....at least she claims to be!

 

In the comments, majority of the people expressed men are either straight or gay! I'm guilty of saying the same thing. But we have to stop!

 

Telling men they can not be bisexual is only making downlow culture more prevalent. We are part of the problem! We can't shame downlow culture and take away men's option to be openly bisexual.

As a woman we say, "just be honest and tell people" but then we take away their space to do so....back to downlow culture. I think we have a false misconception about men who have sex with men (MSM). We see ALL of them as feminine and flamboyant. That's not always true!

 

Your drug dealer may be having sex with a man. Your killer may be having sex with a man. Your favorite "thug" may be having sex with a man. One's sexual preference does not dictate their character. He can be bisexual and still be a killer! He can be bisexual and still be masculine. I promise the two exist.

 

Whenever the day comes where society accepts men being bisexual, that doesn't mean you have to date them. Just like people PREFER skin tones, body types, height, etc over the other, you can PREFER a straight man....I do!

But I do want to highlight, no woman should ever turn their nose up in disgust about bisexual men because it is a good chance that we ALL have slept with a man on the downlow.

Remember, all men who have sex with men are not feminine and flamboyant. They are as masculine as you want them to be!

 

So judge less and stop being part of the problem. Besides, sex is fluid! Sex does not determine a person's character. Just keep that in mind.

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator