Set The Mood

By: Jay Dee, MPH

Erotica is a powerful way to expand your sexual horizons. It offers a glimpse into someone else’s fantasies—sometimes wildly different from your own—and that can be both exciting and eye-opening. While you may not agree with or want to act on every fantasy you encounter, discovering a secret community of people who share similar desires can feel refreshing and validating.

Remember, fantasies don’t have to be acted upon, nor do they define your sexuality. Instead, they can serve as inspiration, especially during masturbation or intimate moments with your partner. Sharing and exploring different forms of erotica together can spark curiosity and deepen your sexual appetite.

Some great places to start:

Listen:

• Black Widow Podcast

• Purple Panties by Zane Podcast

  
  

Read:

• Pleasure by Eric Jerome Dickey

• A Thin Line Between Love and Lust by C.E. Long

  
  

Watch:

• Explore a new porn category

• Movies or series with sexual content and nudity

  
  

When you watch, don’t just consume—observe. Notice how desire is sparked, the passion between partners, the positions, the atmosphere, the build-up, and the aftermath. Let these moments inspire and entertain you.

That said, it’s important to approach erotica mindfully. Some people struggle with porn addiction, so use these suggestions in ways that feel healthy and manageable for you.

Take what resonates—and enjoy the journey.

 Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator