Homework Time: What's Your Fantasy?

By: Jay Dee, MPH

When was the last time you really thought about your fantasies—the ones that make you feel that spark? Yes, those secret desires you don’t usually say out loud.

Grab some paper, sticky notes (three different colors if you can), and a pen.

Ready?

Write down every fantasy that comes to mind on your paper. Then, assign each sticky note color to a category:

• Yes (definitely want to try)

• No (completely off the table)

• Maybe (open to it, but not fully convinced)

  
  

Next, transfer each fantasy onto the corresponding sticky note.

If you’re reading this at work (probably lunchtime), save it for when you’re in a comfortable space and ready to really dig in.

You can do this alone, but it also makes a fun, revealing exercise to share with your partner.

Most importantly, have fun with it! Laugh, don’t take things too seriously, and be open to all perspectives. Create a brave, then safe, space where both you and your partner can hold each other’s desires close to your hearts.

Remember, this isn’t meant to be shared with anyone else unless everyone consents. Try it out, and come back to let me know how it went!

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator