He Said The Pussy Is Trash!

By: Jay Dee, MPH

Recently I had a conversation with a dear friend of mine about the woman he's currently dating. They have a strong connection, he enjoy spending time with her, he can actually see himself marrying her. But there's one issue, according to him "her pussy is trash!" The worst part, he doesn't have the heart to tell her!

I want to bring this to your attention because most women do not believe there can be some improvement on their part. Take a moment and ask your partner what is something or some things you can do more or less of in the bedroom.

Sex is about being pleased while pleasing! Step outside of your ego and discuss your sexual life with your partner(s). Some challenges may require seeking medical attention. Nonetheless, consider introducing sex toys and lubes; accessories are your friends, not enemies!

Here are a few things my friend do unintentionally due to his lack of pleasure:

1. He doesn't initiate sex

2. Sometimes he avoids sex

3. During sex he is zoned out thinking of other things

4. He almost never ejaculate so he fake it

If you find your partner doing any of these, I strongly advise you do a chat and chew to check in on the current state of your sex life. This will also be a great time to explore your partner's erogenous zones and complete the fantasy activity, both in your workbook, Table For One! 

Whatever you do, avoid ignoring the possibility of improving or enhancing your sex life.

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator