Hair Or Bare?

By: Jay Dee, MPH

Do you keep “Big Mama” bare or with hair?

Believe it or not, pubic hair actually serves a powerful purpose. The hair on your vulva and mons pubis acts as a natural barrier, helping to protect the skin from irritation and even reducing the risk of contracting infections like HSV (herpes). It also blocks debris and bacteria from getting into the vagina and helps reduce friction during sex—yes, hair can literally soften the blow.

On the flip side, pubic hair traps moisture, which can sometimes lead to odor or irritation if not cared for properly. For those who choose to keep it, grooming goes a long way. You might prefer to trim it down or keep the bikini line clean—either way, if you love your hair, just make sure it’s neat and cared for.

Now, if you love to be bare, what’s your go-to method—shaving, waxing, Nair, or laser hair removal? Let’s break each one down:

Shaving

Shaving is quick, affordable, and easy to do at home—but only if done correctly.

• Use a men's razor with 5 blades for a smoother, closer shave. Men’s razors are often designed to cut through coarse hair with more precision.

• Apply a shaving cream formulated for sensitive skin to prevent irritation and help the razor glide.

• Shave in the direction of hair growth to minimize razor bumps and ingrown hairs.

• Always use a clean, sharp razor. Dull blades tug at the skin and can hold bacteria, leading to cuts and infections.

• Shaving is best for those who want a quick fix with minimal cost, but the results are short-lived (1–3 days), and maintenance is frequent.

  
  

Waxing

Waxing gives smoother, longer-lasting results because it removes hair from the root.

• See a licensed professional for safety and hygiene.

• Hot wax is applied to the area, then pulled off to extract the hair from the follicle.

• Results last 2–4 weeks, and hair often grows back finer over time.

• Check their hygiene! No double-dipping applicators—this spreads bacteria.

• Skip numbing creams beforehand; they can alter skin sensitivity and affect the waxing process.

• Avoid sex for 24 hours post-waxing to prevent irritation or infection from micro-tears in the skin.

• Ideal for those who want smoother skin with fewer touch-ups, but not great for sensitive skin or low pain tolerance.

  
  

Laser Hair Removal

Laser is the most long-term solution, offering semi-permanent hair reduction.

• Only go to certified and licensed professionals.

• Lasers work by targeting and destroying hair at the follicle, preventing regrowth.

• Best results are seen after multiple sessions (typically 6–8).

• Works best on dark hair and lighter skin tones, though newer technology is expanding accessibility.

• While pricier upfront, laser saves money and time in the long run and can reduce ingrown hairs dramatically.

  
  

Nair (Depilatory Creams)

Nair is a cream that chemically dissolves hair just below the surface.

• Never use Nair directly on the vulva or scrotum—it’s too harsh and can cause painful chemical burns.

• Only use on the bikini line, and always follow the directions exactly.

• Perform a patch test first to make sure your skin doesn’t react.

• Nair is painless and fast, but not a long-term solution. Hair regrows in a few days, similar to shaving.

  
  

Whichever method you choose, make sure it fits your lifestyle, skin type, and maintenance capacity. With summer heat in full swing, staying clean, moisturized, and irritation-free is the priority.

A hydrated, happy, and healthy vagina is the only beauty standard that matters.

Until Next Time,

The Vagina Liberator